Hello to the all of you,those who know me know as well how much I hate the idea of banning people. I think this should be the very last resource and that should be used only in very GRAVE cases. I therefore recognise my yardsticks are quite differents from the majority ones (ie I don't think a bad word or a series of should lead to banning, but tht behaviours judge as polite some time should). But if I can understand the parameters (even if not sharing them) I CAN'T understand the censoring way it is going on. Why a blog of complaining must be deleted? Wouldn't be easier to answer? Moderators aren't but human being not gods descended on ec to unlightened us; as human beings theyr words can be put in discussion as theyr behaviour and ideas. I like ec, I'm friend with some in here, well quite a lot, but I won't worship anyone being them moderators, teachers and well also creator in/of ec.Shouldn't someone that has been banned had the right to say theyr point of views before to be banned? Here people arguing just say "I'm telling the moderators I'll have you ban ( which I find frankly childish) so that nothing can be said but having the sword of banning pending on your head, ok welcome to it...These are some of my ideas badly espress and messy as usual ... I hope you have understood me all the same and I hope you'll share your opininions about with me.See you all on main kisses and hugs :D
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  • Fully emotional... [crying loudly] 

  • To my opinion, there must be rules here if we want EC to stay serious and to last. BUT censorship is a very delicate problem. Some moderators will feel that they have to censor something as others won't, it's all a matter of perception and sometimes of culture.

    When it comes to ban someone, i believe (except for people who are rude and disrespectful) explanation should be given to the banned person. Most of us here don't speak english fluently and there could be missunderstandings. So my main concern is that things should always be clear between the moderators and the person who is causing a problem.

  • Im personally with banning if there is an advantage behind it. Imagine MyEC without rules,, many spamming, many bad words will come on the chat screen, also you will read some blogs, or some comments that will hurt your feelings to the core. For every thing there is a red line, no matter what. I think the staff here are doing a good job, so much hard work, and by the way, look at how many they are, OK, what we ve got here, just look at your right hand, 5 EC moderators, 1 Admin and one founder, they all have different time zones ( this is too much work to do) I really thank them so much for their efforts making this place full of manners and respect.

     

    However, sometimes mistakes happen, Our best friend recently got band, and we dont know the reason. she worked so hard, I dont know, correct me if I'm wrong, she was her for 2 years, Many of her blogs, comments, pictures, friendlist, and more than that all is her reputaion, all lost, gone with the wind, and If she decide to come back with another ID, she will be like a ghost coming back among the shadow owners. She is Michelle yang, I know you all miss her. I know there is a huge misunderstanding, I believe in the staff, I love them and respect them. If they could, they will tell us the story or they will unban her.

     

    I believe what ever they decide we have to respect their decision, because they are here for us. Some one like Michelle yang, is a special case, And what happened to her is a very rare thing to be happened. But from what I see, many of people are crossing the lines, coz they think there is no law. OK, warn them once, twice, then what? some acts are inforgiven, and the trouble maker must be band on spot. I would love to be a Moderator, and ban lots of people who I see them every day swearing on the chat and trying to hurt women with their ungood honey words like they don't care about their feelings. Answer me, what can we to stop this? become easy on them? I guess your answer will be no.

    But I can't take this responsibility, I'm afraid If I missjudge someone, or misunderstood a situation, Also it needs time and wide opened eyes, like the ones in the owl's head.

    Viviana, I respect your point view, and the aim of this blog. And in the main time, I hope you dont think wrong of my view. It is healthy, I think to talk about these things in a honesty mood covered by respect & love.

     

    Respect to all

    Yours

    Night

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