The Bitter Truth of Fake Reality

 

Once I saw a cartoon in a newspaper, a dog with a pc connected to online saying to another dog ‘they don’t know that, we are dogs’. I would like to begin my blog from this point.

 

You have been seeing me in my profile as a person from London, UK. You may think I am native Englishman. But some members could be surprised by this, because they know me for the last 10 months as a citizen of Sri Lanka and my hometown as well. Am I confusing you? Do I am an Englishmen who lived in Sri Lanka or a Sri Lankan migrated to UK. None of the both, I am still in Sri Lanka and breathing the salty wind of my hometown, Puttalam. Then what makes me to change my country?

 

To proof the bitter truth of fake reality that, ‘a dog may not known as a dog, in this virtual world!’ Anyone can pretend as anyone from any part of this world. It doesn’t mean that particular person represents his country, nationality, ethnicity, tribe or any deviations.

 

Many old members would understand what I am trying to proof. But it needs a brief explanation for new members.

 

I have witnessed a regular sequence in the main chat. It begins with an ‘Arabic’ name spoiling the main. That ‘Arabic name’ does spamming, use dirty words, start quarrels and unhealthy arguments. Suddenly another ‘non Arabic’ name jumps to the main by blaming and insulting the language of that name, a religion of a belief, a region, a race, a tribe and all other which are known in general belongs and connected to that ‘Arabic name’. The wonder is the blamer, who hangs on the name panel in silence, for hours until the ‘Arabic name’ spams the main. Is this a coincidence? A famous saying in our country could be a good reply: ‘A fruit falls each time when a crow lands on the branch.’

 

Therefore, this could not be a coincidence. This may do by a single person with two IDs. or by group of people. Do they do this for fun or to hurt others feelings or to sabotage the site?

 

The reason could be any, but two major defects occur by these misbehaviours. First, the harmony of atmosphere collapses. While arguments and defending roses, hurricane of dirty words smashes the main. Second is worst, it scares new members and pull them out to search for another English learning site.

 

Are we sure that, there no any agents of competitive sites in the main? Aren’t they fetching members from EC to their sites? ‘When pages of calendar turn by currency notes, hypocrisy became a capitol investment’

 

As my conclusive decision, I would like to point them out as below:

 

  • The name does not represent the person, in meanwhile judging an ideology by a single person’s behavior is not just.
  • Insulting a particular group of people won’t be a solution, though it drives both parties more arrogant on their ideologies.
  • This site is for learning, neither for backbiting nor anyone in a need of knowing what is in the other corner, as that ‘dog’ cartoon.

 

Let we learn, let others to learn.

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  • First of all .I wanna tell you that.. I enjoyed reading what you've written..and I advice you...try not to carre about those bad memebers..because they aren't the majorty..fortuntly they are only few members..who try to make everything bad with their behavoires.in EC

    so i'm happy for you English man..and wish i only wish you a good luck...brother...salam

  • Indeed  it is the bitter  truth  Hisham  . Enjoyed  reading it  and  highlighting   the purpose  for what  EC  stands for a social  learning  site with no barriers of  caste  creed or  race.  One  can stop these  individual be reporting t o the administration .
    Thumbs  up  Hish  , nice  to see you  in London  :) 

  • I agree with u , i  think we have to ignore anyone try taking us to useless discussion... anyone just present himself.
  • firstly, I love your writing which reflects the knowledge, sensation, and the good ability of writing. I am jealous of you BUT i wish u the best as a brother, so i am happy for u Englishman .^___*.

     

    secondly, about the issue that u are putting forward. I am one of many who were there at the time of that problem and I was really surprised towards what was  happening. I know many people who are exact copy of that person who reflects himself and no else. It happens wherever in this world when we meet such people who don't care about others even if they are from  their culture or from other one. it is an individual case which does't mean anything and it must't take a place in our EC.

     

    stay in peace and don't care for those ppl who are nothing :)

     

    smsm 

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  • Salam Bro Hussain, 

    When I started reading your message, I had the feeling that something was not right. First I agree with you from the start to the end; People here are trying to learn and in the same time there are others who are trying to demolish this beautiful nice site.

     

    when I tried to recall some events like the one you mentioned, really I feel sad and It does even worse when I try to fix it in my mind ... I can't find a suitable solution... but I understand one thing  met a good friends, really they are very nice... and I don't want to loose them by an unworthy useless talking people. I wish for my friends the best forever the whole life and with GOD willing nothing will separate us. 

     

    FOREVER and EVER. 

     

    The topic you had mentioned is the harsh truth, And I liked the title very much. I hope that all members will understand the matter and react after.

     

    My best regards,

     

    Reda

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