The Art of Convince

I’m telling you this apple taste sweet, trust me just eat it. – I stressed my fellow friend Radha over this.

Why would I need to eat this apple to get know it is sweet? You have to prove me without feeding this. – Radha sweetly replied this.

What’s the point of being so obnoxious, just taste it and you will know and how the hell I supposed to describe what is sweet? This apple is sweet and I tasted, it’s so simple. – Annoyingly I replied to Radha.

Wait, did you implant poison inside and you deliberately want to kill me? – Radha pinned out another excuse to divert the topic.

But, I taste this, and I’m not dead now. Why the hell I want to kill you? – getting angry me over this.

Who knows you want to prove your sweetness by killing over my body – Radha teased me more.

Ah! This is blasphemy. Why are you trying to divert this topic? – Me replied.

Now you come to the point. Dear, the point is not this apple taste sweet. The point of this conversation is to convince me how this apple can be sweet without feeding me.- Radha is trying to clear my doubts.

But, that means I’ve to find many ways to lie you? And you know I hate lie. Do you mean convincing is another part of lying? – countering me over this.

No, but this we call selling, marketing and that’s how any business runs. Don’t you want to be a good businessman? – Radha tries to remind me my ambition.

Yes, I want to be a businessman but without speaking lie or this theory of convince. It is impossible for me always. If everyone knows an apple taste sweet and lemon taste sour. How can I convince or define these tastes. – Scientific approached of me.

Dear, you need to learn art of convincing. The biggest thing in this world to learn this art and you would be successful in every field.-

So, this means I cannot be a businessman in my whole life. – Disappointed I said this to Radha.

Unfortunately, I would say yes! – Radha replied disappointedly.

Conversation ends here. I gave this conversation a name: Fruit Theory.

Convincing, a biggest part of succession towards any field you will see in your whole life. Either it is in love matter or any kind of profession. Few are born with this talent, few needs to learn this art and few just taught by the life. As the matter of fact everyone has to learn this art, someway, somewhere around all of this. Those who do not learn this art may be extinct like dinosaurs because you need to survive in anyway. If you born with silver spoon in your mouth then it’s an another story, you just have to cry like a baby and food is on the table.

It is not only selling part but when I have to convince an idea which can hit in market and with a perfect design it is rejected because unable to convince. Later on the same idea hit in market with huge succession. It hurts more. It is the loss of both sides. Company as well mine. I could be one who would be entitled with this and obviously company increases his selling. But to my weakness over this art, I’m the failure all the time.

Being a girl colleague who is your competitor she gained additional advantage as if you have a male boss. She has plenty of ways to convince him. Not to be disgusting way but girls are born with this talent. They are born with the convincing art as I’m sure about now. If those cannot do this then they better learn this art as quick possible because you will always find yourself in a wild jungle, alone!

Even I prepared all the logics and bring statistic and you have to convince them it will hit the market and it is rejected because your boss is fell in love with your female colleague is the worst scenario of my life. How to survive in this situation, because just mute will not work. I’m the worst creature in this earth who does not find any ways to learn this art. Someone say right about me. Yes, you work like a donkey but to be successful you need to run like a Horse, yes just be smart dear. Why the hell world always needs horse when I think donkey are more useful as horse are useless now. We have cars to use for travelling and this needs petrol. Yes another crucial thing now government trying to convince people about petrol prices hike. But instead of convince they just force it. Yes, power! That is always upper hand over convincing or if you have more people then let us do strike. But is it not loss of everyone, as well as country economy, why the world does not see what is right or wrong. Yeah, may be because they do not want to see this.

Egoistic nature people and convincing nature people are biggest rival in this world. They will clash all the time and try to dominate each other. In this rivalry, simple and mute people enjoy the time and try to remain as idler they can. Yes laziness increases unemployment. What am I trying to tell you people, is it not clear, convincing is an art?

Someone gave me a very good suggestion earlier, You can bring a horse near the water, but you cannot force him to drink it. You have to leave it until he is thirsty. But if this the way, is it not late? May be patience is the key to be convince someone or is there any better way around?

Please give your suggestion how to write more effectively. Because I know it can be modify in better way, something is missing as my instinct says. What it could be that will come out when I’m able to convince you to comment here. See, I’m the first one who trying to use this art. Yes, I’m sick of this. But let me give it a try.

See, you next!


 

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  • Thanks bro  ^.^ This gives me idea to right Part II ;)

  • mmm ... let's try something .... see this video plz ... 

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHckzPJuPKw

    PS : Embedding disabled by request.


    If It doesn't work, I believe that sometimes you need to make the others curious to be convinced , how to do it with an apple ?  mm ... This should be for your next blog ;) 

  • @Ultimate

    Bro! you rock ^.^ Hmmm, I see learn art of deceiving too. :( But, It's hard for me to do. I'm just a simple man. :) May be if you think teach me something.

    BTW! I always have a question in my mind. How can you explain how an apple taste sweet? without feeding or anything else which is tastier sweet. In that case, she just born and do not have any idea of sweet! Can you do this in word or speech? Or if you use art of deceptiveness how? Try it!

  • Just as I told you before, convincing couldn't be something like pressing a button and you are done. In most of the time, It's build on the situations you are going through with your mate ( the one you are trying to convince or the vice-versa ) and as you mentioned it could be another way of lying but I can't call it convincing ... Though there is still another option which is DECEIVING and it's not always bad ... we can see it from another angle. For example, Nickolas Kage when they are writing a story for a new movie, they write the full  version and after they ask .. this is what people are waiting as answer , and based on this they change everything that could be as normal reaction ... in the end there will be a new version full of surprises and there go .. it will a superb movie. I know it's not about the same thing as convincing ... but the art of deceiving is really an interesting one... it has its bad points and good points too.

  • EEEE Anele, In India we do not call mother by name!!! and mother do not convinced the child she pour love in her words and in any case she cannot be harmful to child.

    But here, I'm (male) trying to convince his fellow Radha (female), but she is teaching him or explaining him the meaning of convince, because this is a mandatory skill towards life.

    The whole point is now a days convincing and lying has no difference, because through lying you convince people, most of the time.

    In my next blog you will understand, do you really see constructive is a positive word or negative word via mathematical formula. :) 

    This time you understand properly, actually you understand first time too, and I'm always happy to see your opinion because if I see things only via my eyes what's point of writing an article. For the betterment there is always need a criticiser to polish it perfect. :) and I'm happy you are here to help me.

    Thank you so much :) Have a nice day to you!

  • Dear Anele,

    leadership is about one-third born (due to genetic factors) and two-thirds made*. Yet, many leaders say the exact opposite -- believing leaders are mostly born. But the question is not about leadership here. The exact article is about how you see that leader misuses the power of convince to common man. A man who just work but do not want to involve in politics suffer most his life.

    If you see the picture carefully, you will understand what exactly my motive of writing this article. There is huge difference in theories and practical life. What happen when a wrong leader get into power he doesn't convince he misuses his power and shows he is convincing you. I bet you should think more deeply by looking over the images. 

    I'm glad you like the topic, and please say more because now it will make you curious about that it is not about leadership, it is purely about the meaning of convince. A true leader never convince people, people already convince to follow him.

    Leadership is not about to creating followers it means to create more leaders. :)

  • @himanshu

    Bro! finally you regain consciousness. hehe! where were you since few days? I'm happy you like the conversation ;) I wish everyone born with silver born in smooth.

    You convinced and you convince me as well that you are good in English too. Why not you try to write a blog? I hope to see your blog. :))

    Cheers!

  • @Nadira

    Finallyyyyyy, you are here, you are my inspiration here to wrote your experiences of life. These comment meant for me lot. I will always try my best to put reader entertained.

    Thank you so much for wishes Nadira. Have a nice day to you as well. :)

  • wowowow fantastic  yoru  really are a good  writer  and  bring out  the  story very well keeping  the readier  entertained.
    I was not online for  some time , thank you for  giving me the alert  please continue  to do so as I do not wish  to miss  reading your articles  Sandeep :)
    Best Wishes  

    Nadira  

  • Thank you so much Icha.

    hehe now MyEC Dictionary is handy ;) Just wait till next Monday and I will write next blog. Practice makes you a good writer and always try to stay in touch with your reader. Meanwhile for you can read more blog written, find it as your appealing.

    Have a nice day!

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