Some 10 years back my confidence level was very low. I was very shy and couldn't see a person directly and speak. There may be the reasons of its own for the situation. I lost my job and I was told my Ex-Boss that I am "emotionally imbalanced". I am totally out of control at that time. I don't know how to survive and was worrying a lot.
During one of my wife's relative marriage we used to visit North India and we used to stay in one of my wife's relatives. I was wondering how the people are enjoying life I observed that they are very social and they lead life with lot of fun and joy. I was impressed with the way they lead a life with a lot of joy. I have decided that I will change myself and turn into a very optimistic way and enjoy the life with full of excitement.
After a period of two to three years we were introduced into a system which I found very interesting and that made me not only to enjoy the life but to teach others to be very optimistic about their future. Throughout the system it was taught that if you want to be successful you have to dream your destiny and always be optimistic. And in one of the books the 'SECRET' was revealed as you have to think, speak, write, visualize what do you want in life and the universe will in return will fulfill your need / dream. Henceforth I started self-talk about the things I needed and it started working slowly. God has created everything. It is you to decide what you need. I have come across lots of people who always murmur that they couldn't get this, if they might have been like somebody else their life will be full of colours, God is not in favour of them, fate etc.etc. . I feel very sorry for their ignorance that they have everything in life but just because of the association and the impact of TV serials / Movies etc. they turned negative.
When I was writing this I was overwhelmed that if everyone starts following the 'law of attraction' how the world become. This 'law of attraction' will give what every you want viz. health, wealth, fame etc. It's done deal!!