One day, I asked my friend "Why are you change lately? You are not like the same person I know before". I asked her that question because she has become a person I don't know and I don't like. She answered "you know, people change, sometimes life makes them change"She became a person who irritated easily, bad-tampered, full of vengeance, and what I don't like the most is the way she talks. In her words, sentences, I fell bitterness in it... What inside will come outside. And that hurts me because she changed in a bad way.She learned the hard ways about life. The last problem she had with her boyfriend, broke her to pieces. Stole her sweetness and changed her into bitterness. Revealed the real evil inside her, and unmasked her face, and what's sad she surrendered with that hardness.Yeah, people change so do we. Sometimes, we can't get along forever. Some people could stay longer, and at one point, we should leave from they life, because we are not compatible anymore. Some people grow, like a coccon to butterfly, or from a toadpole to frog, but some people failed, or perhaps we are growing in different ways. People should not only change, but progress, means become better.Yeah, even a bestfriend grows apart, just keep the memories...
Heaven, I bet you are right. No friendship without quarrels. Don't do something we will regret later. The best I should do is accepting and waitting her get through this phase of life. Yes, my hands are wide open for her. Thanks for your time and comment.
Wywu
Yes, I hope so. I'm just curious, is this the real her or no.
Sewar
Hi sewar, yes. Pains leave scars, but it would be such a waste if we don't learn anything from it. Problems, pressure should release the best in us, just like an exam, to bring us to the next level. Thanks.
Expector Smith
Exactly! Make it sure we grow in the right direction.
Hi my friend, no one denies that problems require us to stretch, to grow and learn. Learn to value ourselves, which means to fight for our happiness even if we have to fight ourselves. But also no one can denies that there are problems leave scars in the deep of our hearts, even, sometimes, if we have a new problem, probably, we would feel that there isn’t a place in our souls for it because, we still under the affection of the ex problem.
Sometimes, pain causes us to contemplate: to change our direction. It prompts us to look at things differently, but the challenge is; how we have to accustom ourselves to look at things positively? I know it is not an easy task, but our life, our families, our friends deserve our best efforts.
Finally my friend, I believe that; we are unlimited in our own ability to create the good in our life. God bless you.
Thank you Anele and Bala for your comment, what is interesting here, both of you give me different perspective on it, but I agree to both of you...
Yes, people come and people go, what we want is to be together forever. But it seems impossible, because people have their own life. Just do the best as long as we have the chance to be together. Be a blessing indeed. I'm working on it.
Stephen.. I feel this is the time, you should be with her... Friendship is not just to share only happiness, but also sad moments.. Please take it lightly even if she abuses u... cos, i dont think its her original... must be she is exposing herself hard to come out from her loss...
Be confident on yourself.. cos, we never choose a bad friend... So, try to be with her and give her a hand to face the sad, bad phase of her life... and thats true friendship and it is ur duty too.... Dont let her alone...Dont wait for her to hold ur hand...
Hi Sima, haha... Yes I miss my friend, but actually, I'm sad to see her change that way. You are right, maybe she needs time to grow, and both my hands are opened wide for her. Thanks for your nice comment.
Dear friend Stephen ..your blog was full f emotion seems ,you really miss your friend ...so you know i was in paragraph 1 that,,,it came in my mind any person does not like to change to bad one ..any people doesnt like to change his attitude ,and this is worse for him if he is kind and open heart I am sure some one bother her and abuse her cuz of her simply and her attitude ...and after that in second part i see that your friend was in abused ,,and her boyfriend hurts her ,,, so i just wanna tell you ...if you love her if she was truly your friend ,,,she needs you that time to be with her ...she needed someone to show her that beauty of this world and make her happy ...this is the worst feeling in the life to see people abuse your feeling and what is going on in your heart ... i wish calm and happiness for her :(
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Maybe she needs times to recover and what you see now is she in her very bad times. You could try to help her recover her heart if it was possible.
Yes, I hope so. I'm just curious, is this the real her or no.
Sewar
Hi sewar, yes. Pains leave scars, but it would be such a waste if we don't learn anything from it. Problems, pressure should release the best in us, just like an exam, to bring us to the next level. Thanks.
Expector Smith
Exactly! Make it sure we grow in the right direction.
Things keep changing!
Hi my friend, no one denies that problems require us to stretch, to grow and learn. Learn to value ourselves, which means to fight for our happiness even if we have to fight ourselves. But also no one can denies that there are problems leave scars in the deep of our hearts, even, sometimes, if we have a new problem, probably, we would feel that there isn’t a place in our souls for it because, we still under the affection of the ex problem.
Sometimes, pain causes us to contemplate: to change our direction. It prompts us to look at things differently, but the challenge is; how we have to accustom ourselves to look at things positively? I know it is not an easy task, but our life, our families, our friends deserve our best efforts.
Finally my friend, I believe that; we are unlimited in our own ability to create the good in our life. God bless you.
Yes, people come and people go, what we want is to be together forever. But it seems impossible, because people have their own life. Just do the best as long as we have the chance to be together. Be a blessing indeed. I'm working on it.
Stephen.. I feel this is the time, you should be with her... Friendship is not just to share only happiness, but also sad moments.. Please take it lightly even if she abuses u... cos, i dont think its her original... must be she is exposing herself hard to come out from her loss...
Be confident on yourself.. cos, we never choose a bad friend... So, try to be with her and give her a hand to face the sad, bad phase of her life... and thats true friendship and it is ur duty too.... Dont let her alone...Dont wait for her to hold ur hand...
Dear Asmaa, yes, it depends on us, do we make it as a lesson to grow, or destroy us.
Dear Reham, you remind me of a proverb. "as iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another"
Dear friend Stephen ..your blog was full f emotion seems ,you really miss your friend ...so you know i was in paragraph 1 that,,,it came in my mind any person does not like to change to bad one ..any people doesnt like to change his attitude ,and this is worse for him if he is kind and open heart I am sure some one bother her and abuse her cuz of her simply and her attitude ...and after that in second part i see that your friend was in abused ,,and her boyfriend hurts her ,,, so i just wanna tell you ...if you love her if she was truly your friend ,,,she needs you that time to be with her ...she needed someone to show her that beauty of this world and make her happy ...this is the worst feeling in the life to see people abuse your feeling and what is going on in your heart ... i wish calm and happiness for her :(
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