Just don't care, what they say :)

Sometimes we come across weird, chaotic thoughts that start occupying our brain. Sometimes we are stressed because of little issues that eventually don't matter so much but we consider them at that one particular moment the most important in the world. We ask ourself the questions such as: "Am I good enough? Do I look fine? Will others like this or that I have worked on?" We tend to doubt, which is natural but I would say we waste time on thinking about how others percieve us...

In fact, we care too much about own appearance. We want to look good, we want to impress others. The question is FOR WHOM are we doing this all? For the strangers on the streets that we pass by and who don't care about us? For the people in school or at work, who hardly remember what we were wearing the previous day? After all at home with our own family we don't care that much about it because we are simply ourself. What made me laugh was one post I have read recently: "Home is the only place we can look ugly because nobody cares there about it... "

We are dying to be loved, to be popular to be a good person. We want to be admired because it simply makes us feel good but isn't it a bit egoistic and selfish? It actually looks like we forgot to value our own abilities. We should do things we like and enjoy instead of doing them on purpose with the vision of being liked and praised. Feedback is of course nice thing but firstly we should be happy about our own effort and performance. The less we care about how others percieve us, the less vulnerable and more confident we will be.

So what's the message I wanted to share by writing this blog? You know, I just wanted to say that it isn't about being arrogant, it is just about appreciating own abilities, which should make us feel comfortable and which should vanish all these questions about how others see us. What matters is.. how much we value ourself and how much we appreciate doing things that makes us happy just for our own inner nice feeling and satisfaction...

So just take things easy and live your life for yourself, not for others...

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  • Seifeldawla, thanks for your comment and I believe it is individual.. Some people need to be admired, it inspired them but is it really so important? Hahaa.. 

  • Self-confidence is extremely important in almost every aspect of our lives, yet so many people struggle to find it...Estimating the abilities of ourselves  is key for survival, guiding decisions about living life...
    Thanks for writing on this topic as it will definitely groom personality of appreciating "own abilities" in one just like me... :)...

  • Is it your real picture? Can't believe that!

  • Luci, dear! I agree 100%! But I disagree with looking ugly at home! LOL!

  • Luci, I found this one:

    Bildergebnis für don't care what others say

    Isn't it true?

  • Really itis abig question "how others see us" and it occupied agreat part of our life to the extant that as we live to answer this question , but do we really satisfy by the way others see us, or we just need amirror to see our self in and be sure we are fine and impirtant....
  • Estaaa :D why you wanna kill Romchik? I wanna suggest that you would wear costume Hudel posted :D

  • To late, Estanis! :P

    I have already came up with some ideas for the pictures :D

  • Ermm.. Roman, I think highly of you but no need to share it ;)

  • Hi Estanis! :D

    I will take a picture of myself wearing the sandals with socks! :P

    Who knows, maybe latter it will be really forbidden by laws. :)

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