Salaam alaikom everybody
I wish you are all doing great.
I don't know why sometimes I have to act like a superwoman while I really can't. people expect so much from you regradless to your condition whether you're tired or exhausted they really don't care they expect you to be always active and I'm talking about my job it makes me really stressed.
Trying to please all the people around is really an exhausting matter and it's really hard for me to keep smiling while I'm really angry. For instance my boss is driving me crazy and when we , me and my colleagues, want to discuss anything with him, he says don't argue like we never supposed to talk :(
and do I have to take orders from him without even arguing or discussing them? How mean!
So, how can I handle this and have you ever tried to act like a superman or superwoman?
Take care all :)
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Thank you guys all for understanding what I've been through. And about leaving my current job this actually is easier said than done. Thank you for encouraging me and I'll try to look at the bright side and I'll take your nice advices and I'll try to keep smiling and fighting for what I need no matter what happened.
I wish you all the best:)
we are all human and life is not easy so most of us like you and you don't have to act as a superwomen but you have to control urself and try to be happy and try to learn from mistakes and deal with difficult persons like ur manager.
Dear Sama,
Work hard for your future but take it easy, please your self first. Arguing with your boss is wrong, be with him like a politic woman, this is how things go.
Thank god, I haven't faced such thing, but I always work in the shadow, I don't make connections with my boss, I just do my job and thats it, i don't to get close to him or please him, this is my stratigy, be away to be safe :)
Nice topic Sama, I hope you find a better job or fix things there.
Best wishes
Night
Work harder and try to become boss, or just walk out and do what you want to do :D it's up to you!
It's just my opinion :D
assalamu'alaikum
well, i think it's a tiring life if we live on some else shoes, act like a superman or superwoman. even we don't accept who we are.
to answer your question in the last sentence, i never act to be someone else.
it's nice to be me, to be my self, just the way i am. be my self, i can do anything freely, no burden. enjoy your life.
have a nice day :)