We will never grow too old to learn new things . It is our nature as human . Learning isn't a part of an educational system with a certain curriculum .
Learning is a big topic that covers a wide range of things , especially when it comes to human nature and how to deal with some kind of personalities .

    Some people do sugar coat their behaviors just to get things or achieve certain goals or have the latest news from your mouth .
Well , there is no problem in dealing with others in a transactional way . It is part of our humanity and a way of communication . Not all our talks will be emotional and warm .

  However , you get that feeling of bitterness when some people start things , in the wrong way with you .
The story behind this long introduction is meeting my neighbor for the first time . So , a mid of this Corona virus quarantine . She started to build a relationship with me . I admit that I felt happy because , I have no friends at all in real world and I was very excited to visit her in her near apartment .

    As the whole things started . She begun to text me on the watts and asking for everything from my kitchen . I was annoyed because I didn't think she was in real need for these things . I thought she was only teasing me . Maybe I was wrong or something .

  Then , she invited me to her apartment and insist that I should come and under her insistence and the quarantine state of complete boredom . I decided to see what lays there behind the fence .
All of the sudden , things begins to get clearer and I started to see a woman that is not my cup of tea at all .
She was that kind of people who wants to give you that bad feeling about yourself and the whole world .
She kept on provoking me during the meeting . Throwing her negative words over me from time to time and like pouring more tea in my cup , as if her tea will erase her bad manners . I don't want to go into more unnecessary details about our talk .

                 But I can say , that I have learned a lesson that I should never give anyone
Such a me and her sitting alone . It isn't that easy some people have bad intentions toward others . They are waiting to get the chance to spite their poison . Don't let them do it . Nothing worth enduring their behaviors .
    I won't hate my neighbor at all . It is I have made a decision never to meet or visit anyone I don't know very well and that relationship must be cooked on low heat .

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    •  You are right she must have been living a terrible life with herself . In the middle  of our conversation she raised her clothes showing me her belly like a bloon  and saying : it must be my colon inflated  and added I was thinking about ....... 

               I hope things will end well with her anyway 

            Thanks dear ella 🌷💖

  • Hi, Rosemary, first, it's so good to have you back on EC! :) 
    I'm sorry that this invitation turned out to be so bad in the end. Sometimes people are mean, sometimes people are not aware that the words they say hurt us, sometimes we are too sensitive and get things the wrong way... it all happens. I think there is no recipe for making friends. Neither on- nor offline. (Talking about real friends now, not contacts and acquaintances) 

    When I look at myself I know that I'm picky and I rarely click with other people. But on the other side I know that because of that I need to meet a lot of people to find a friend with whom I hit it off... I moved two years ago to this place, and because I was so ill a long time I never actually started to meet new people here. Just now I'm starting to make new contacts, and it's not so easy to put yourself out there... I know!! But that's the only way it works. Hope this one bad experience doesn't hold you back from making new contacts... and eventually new friends. HUGs

    •  " there is no recipe for making friends  " 👍

            You are totally right about this and your opinion  is very deep and meaningful  . 

           I hope that your  health is better  now 

             Hugs and love 🌷💖🌷

  • Akeed ya Rosemary! Do you remember the story of Jiha with his donkey? People never stop talking negative or positive.  I add to that, you do not know the person unless you have a relationship with that person. Thanks for sharing. 

    • 👍  that's right :) 

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