wisdom - ESL Blogs - MyEnglishClub2024-03-29T12:30:49Zhttps://www.myenglishclub.com/blogs/feed/tag/wisdomConsequences and Contemplation: The Tapestry of Choicehttps://www.myenglishclub.com/blogs/consequences-and-contemplation-the-tapestry-of-choice2023-08-24T14:14:55.000Z2023-08-24T14:14:55.000ZPeter Easleyhttps://www.myenglishclub.com/members/PeterEasley<div><img src="https://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/12208244463?profile=RESIZE_400x&width=400"></div><div><p><span style="font-size:14pt;">Our choices shape our lives in the intricate tapestry of existence. Regardless of its magnitude, each decision can steer us towards many paths, leading to different consequences. Choosing wisely or unwisely shapes the narratives of our lives, leaving indelible imprints on our journey. In the reckoning of these consequences, we discover the profundity of our choices: an exploration fraught with both burdens and blessings. In this contemplation, we delve into personal experience, where one's audacious but unwise decision forces a dialectical confrontation, causing a coexistence of pride and regret.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:12pt;">Acknowledging the coexistence of pride and regret when reflecting upon our personal experiences is essential. Our choices, even if unwise in hindsight, often embody elements we cannot help but be proud of. The sheer audacity of the risk taken or the courage to defy societal norms showcases our ability to embrace the unknown and challenge ourselves. This pride stems from recognising that these choices reflect an unwavering commitment to uncovering our true selves and shaping our destinies.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:12pt;">Yet, amidst this pride, we grapple with the weight of regret. We face the dissonance between the envisioned outcome and reality, realising that the consequences we now contend with stem from our own unwise decisions. Regret is the introspective guidepost, a constant reminder of the divergent path we chose to traverse. Through regret, wisdom begins to crystallise, teaching us valuable lessons about life and the consequences of our choices.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:12pt;">The consequences of our unwise decisions profoundly influence our future choices. They serve as both a cautionary tale and a testament to our resilience. Fear, born from the awareness of past missteps, can cast a shadow over our willingness to embrace change. The fear of stagnation grips us, impeding progress and preventing us from moving forward. The familiar, albeit unsatisfactory, present becomes a refuge sheltering us from the inherent risks and unknown variables of venturing into new horizons. The unwise decision becomes an anchor, tethering us to the comfort of familiarity and hindering our potential growth.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:12pt;">Simultaneously, the consequences of unwise choices can propel us forward. Through experiencing the ramifications of past decisions, we foster personal growth and gain invaluable wisdom. Recognising our errors compels us to self-reflect, reassess our values and priorities, and refine our decision-making processes. The aftermath of unwise choices can catalyse transformation, propelling us towards a future marked by discernment and thoughtfulness. In embracing the lessons learned, we forge a stronger resilience, enabling us to face new challenges head-on with an improved understanding of the world and ourselves.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:12pt;">As we grapple with the consequences of unwise choices, the road forward is shrouded in uncertainty and ambivalence. The fear of repeating past failures becomes entwined with the fear of letting go of what is familiar, thus leaving us caught between two opposing forces. Remaining stationary preserves our comfort but stifles development while moving on entails the unpredictable nature of change. This paradox highlights the importance of accepting the consequences while remaining open to new possibilities.</span></p><p><span style="font-size:12pt;">Life is a tapestry woven from choices, some wise and others unwise. While the consequences of misguided decisions can provoke regret and fear, they also present an opportunity for growth, wisdom, and resilience. Acknowledging the pride and finding solace in those aspects of our choices that we hold dear is crucial to reconciliation. As we embrace the consequences of our unwise decisions, we open ourselves to new horizons, enabling personal transformation and formulating future choices guided by discernment and thoughtfulness. Into the unknown, we must venture, understanding that wisdom and folly are threads interwoven within the fabric of our lives.</span></p></div>Wisdomhttps://www.myenglishclub.com/blogs/wisdom-12019-12-31T02:31:51.000Z2019-12-31T02:31:51.000ZMalal Jallohhttps://www.myenglishclub.com/members/MalalJalloh774<div><p> There lived a man with his son.</p><p>He always gave pieces of advice to his son " Son! Be wise, respect elderly people, never pick something up which doesn't belong to you "</p><p>" Alright, father" Said his son. </p><p>One day, on the way to the mosq for the morning prayer, He (The man) lit his torch light and he saw some money around, he picked the money up and put it in his pocket. </p><p>The young boy saw him but didn't say anything. </p><p>Back home, the man told his son to go and lie down until the Sun rises, the young boy agreed. </p><p>But before he goes, he said "Dad, you told me to be wise, to respect elderly people and never pick something up that is not for me" and, he went on "you picked up money this morning that is not yours".</p><p>The man, not wanting to lose trust from his son, held his (the young boy) hand and went back till where he picked up the money, put it down and then said "Yes son, never do that" </p><p>Finally they went back home. </p><p>This is a good example for his children if one wants his children to act good. And be good responsible people in future. </p><p>It's a sign of a good behaviour.</p></div>Be wise!!!https://www.myenglishclub.com/blogs/be-wise2019-06-03T14:52:11.000Z2019-06-03T14:52:11.000ZMalal Jallohhttps://www.myenglishclub.com/members/MalalJalloh<div><p> There was a couple married in a village, they used to fight at any moment, the husband beats the lady every time. </p><p> One day, the lady decided to put an end to that fight. She went to the wizard, she entered his house, greeted the wizard and sat down " dear sir, I've come to you with a problem that harassed me alot, and for long time. But today I decided to come to you so that you help me have a solution to that problem." complained the lady. </p><p> She explained all the story to the wizard. </p><p>The wizard said to her "wait here, I'll be right back " He went in another room, took a bottle full of a liquid, came out then said to the lady. " dear lady! Take this bottle with you, hide until you get home and do never show it to your husband. Whenever your husband start scolding you, go into the room, fill in your mouth with the liquid and let your husband shout. In fees days you'll tell me the result" </p><p>The lady went back home and applied the way she was explained. </p><p> In two weeks, she noticed that everything had changed. There wasn't fight anymore between her and her husband. </p><p> She went to the wizard congratulating him about the great job he did. " my dear, I'm so happy that it worked well, you did a great job for me and I will never forget it. I'll be grateful to you". </p><p> The man (wizard )smiled an then said " young lady, let me tell you today, the bottle I gave you last time, there wasn't anything in but water, yes only water " That's to tell you, whenever your husband or someone scolds you if you don't say a word, nothing bad will happen." </p><p> In my mother tongue it is said, one single person cannot break his own arm. But two people can, the one who twists and the other resists. </p></div>