Who can't forget any thing in his/her life? Who has the power of remembering ?
Who has a super memory? If you are , raise your hand!!

I'm waiting!!
I'm waiting!!!!!!!!!!

No one!! Why didn't anyone raise his/her hand? I think I know.
Because we all has the bliss of the forgetting? But wait!!!
Is it really a bliss or Is it a indignance? I don't know actually!! It's hard to answer this question ..
I tried to find an answer but I'm getting nowhere. It's really confusing question , and it became more confusing after I saw 2 situations that made me so hesitant.

Wow! She felt she was the happiest women in the world because she was pregnant (she will have a baby!!!)
But after that,when it was the time to give birth, she forgot her happiness and become scared. She screamed:" Oh my god!! Why did I get married? I wish that I didn't!!", then she looked at her husband by angry eyes and shouted at him .
She forgot the beautiful moments because she saw the death. After months, She became pregnant again, and she thought that she was the happiest woman in the world because she would have a baby again.
Why? Why did she become happy ? Was she crazy? No, she wasn't. She became happy because she forgot what happened that day, the scream, the pain and when she blamed her husband.
If she didn't forget, maybe she would have one child!! And he would be an only child
And If the other women did the same, maybe all the humans wiould die out.!!

They fell in love and promised each other that they wouldn't separate forever. They lived happily, but one day he forgot her and how much she loved him, and they broke up! He broke her heart!! Why?!! Because he forgot his promise ,forgot how much his girl needed him. he forgot how much that hurt and made the girl cry from the depth of her heart
She became sad and thought she wouldn't be alive without his love. She spent a lot of nights thinking about him, imagining his smile, his words, his eyes and every thing he used to do. She wanted him so bad and couldn't stop thinking of him. But afterward, she could live her life again. She could forget him and start a new life. She fell in love again because she forgot. If she couldn't maybe she would die alone without any lover..
And maybe she would be sad all her life .

There're a lot of situations in our life and they show that the forgetting is the problem, and it's the solution at the same time..

Also, there are some small things that we forget and they cause a lot of problems. Some times you forget the key in the car, the iron on paints,forget tot turn the gas off, the time and things like that. They are small but when we forget them, we cause problems.

We use the word (forget) a lot although we don't know if it’s a bliss or an indignance.. Look at these tow sentences: Imagine a situation for them
1). I won't forget you. 2). I want to forget you ( Then I forgot you!! )
There's a similarity and difference between the tow sentences . (think about it)..
One of them show the bliss of forgetting and the other show the indignance .

I wrote this blog about forgetting because someone forgot me and I can't forget that person. But I'm sure that everything will be all right.
why? because,
Forgetting is the problem and the solution at the same time^_^

So pleas give me your opinion. What do you think? Is it a bliss or indignance?
And let's share together or ideas..
Tell me what do you want to forget?
What don't you want to forget? What the things that you didn't want to forget but you forgot ? and What the thing that you wanted to forget but you couldn't? ?

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Comment by Belle on November 17, 2010 at 16:41
Thank you all for your comments :)
Comment by anu on November 16, 2010 at 11:47
it depend on the matter. some time it is bliss........
Comment by juan carlo luna on November 16, 2010 at 10:52
Trivia about forgetting.
Did you know that five minutes after hearing something we can only recall 50% of what we heard
Comment by Thanh Nguyen on November 16, 2010 at 8:37
I don’t want to forget anything. But I forgot them many times
There are many moments that I don’t want to forget when I grow older. My dad told me that when I was a toddler, I used to be a naughty child. I mixed sand getting from my house's yard with water and filled it to the fridge’s transformer without being afraid of electrocution. There’s another time after receiving wages, my dad put his money in a cabinet, but I took all of these money papers to buy a Popsicle when a cream hawker went pass my home. I really could not realize whom he was talking about. I didn’t remember anything about myself at that age. Although everyday is a lesson for me to experience and learn, there are a few things that I have to fail many times before I can learn by heart the lessons that this life wants me to learn. Regret, forget, redo, and then regret…- a circle of accumulating knowledge throughout my lifetime. It wastes much time and energy before being mature. There’s a saying “no pain, no gain”, so I want to keep in my mind both the sorrows and joys so that I will appreciate what I have today and live a more meaningful life.
What I couldn’t forget
The peaceful and quiet atmosphere always creates a safe and sound feeling in my heart whenever I think of my hometown. I can not forget sunny noons with tree branches swaying in light winds as well as quiet and peaceful nights in my countryside. Looking changes around my hometown makes me realize that I am not a kid anymore. However, everything seems inherently fresh: delicious foods, friendly people, and beautiful scenery. It’s a little and poor countryside, but it is an essential part in my heart. When I feel sad or hopeless, I always travel back to my hometown to find my lost peaceful soul that enables me to enjoy a total freedom that nobody or nothing can keep hurting me. That is Love that I haven’t been able to forget.

Comment by nida on November 15, 2010 at 22:46
Well, it depends! Some times it is bliss, and sometimes it is indignance.

Comment by Nadira on November 15, 2010 at 16:36
It is easier to forget bad memories to get on with life, it becomes a blessing in life.
Comment by deuce666 on November 15, 2010 at 16:30
We don't forget, just something becomes more important at one time and trivial the next day :))
Comment by Ogundele on November 15, 2010 at 16:28
Hi Rana! It's very interesting. I think condition can also make one forget someone
Comment by deuce666 on November 15, 2010 at 16:04
I never forget things... you can never forget anything, it will always be in your memory but sometimes some things become more important and urgent for you at a definite time and the others become vague but you don't forget them :))

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