I will tell you a story...
But sorry, maybe there are so many gramatical mistake there. please fell free to fix my mistakes and of course I will wait your comment too.
This is story about a wife who are very happy with her family. she has a husband, and 4 children. All of them are boys.She always do her job well as cooking, cleaning, washing and of course to take care her family. She is a very happy wife and mother. She really a neat mother. she does not like if the children and her husband make carpet become dirty. And if it happen, she will be very angry with them. And She can keep that bad feeling all day. You can imagine, with 4 children at home, the carpet must be always dirty easyly.
A member of her family, suggest her to come to a psychologist to consult about her problem.
then she go to the psycologist. her name is Virginia Satir
virginia smiled when listen to her problem. Than she ask her to close her eyes.
Virginia asked her to think about a living room. That room is so neat. A mother smile when imagine that scene. Virginia continue to ask to her. " Do you like that? A neat living room. without a husband an the children". Suddenly her smile disapear . "Where are my family?" She felled so scare. She afraid her family got a bad things.
A pshycologist asked her to imagine a same room, but it is not neat anymore. But her family stay there.
A woman can smile now. A dirty and a messy rom, it was mean her family there.
then she opened her eyes. Now, she know that her family is everything. It was ok if the room become dirty, but her family still there. If we can change the way of our sight ew can catch a good thing from a bad situation.
The moral that we can take from this story is we hae to thankfull to our God. Try to see something in a good view and everything will be fine