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you cant forget someone who cant even remember you ...how can you face this helpless situation?

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Easy, gosh, don't cry!  Anyways, I do agree with your BLOG...errr...COMMENT.  It's too long, thought I was reading a blog.  (^,^)

TDK, I think it's not that the person "can't remember you" but just simply "doesn't want to remember you" unless that person has mental disorder.  Situations like this one hurts but let time takes care of it.  No matter what we tell you anyways will be useless.  Feelings are stubborn and won't let go easily.  The more you are forced to do something contrary to your feelings the more you rebel.  So be sad, cry if you have to, think of that person day and night, reminisce old memories and cry again.  That's all normal and part of the healing process.  Live your life one day at a time.  Be patient and time will heal your pains.  Who knows one day when you look back, you'll be able to remember the person but not the feelings.  Good luck!

Life is full of ups and downs.Some will stay with us and some doesn't. Try to get engaged in something you like rather than thinking about him/her.As time passes those memories will fade away from your mind.So please stop worrying & move forward.
Its easy....every person has his replacemend....life goes on

i wanted to write something like this ur sentences, so i just pasted that below;

...And please don't be judgmental to say someone doesn't remember you. Maybe that person doesn't talk to you or ignores you whenever you meet him/her at somewhere. But who knows, you live in the solitude of that person. You may appear in their dreams. Something or someone reminds them about you. 

I think there is precieux crazy telepathy between all people that makes two-sided relationship which sometimes we can't feel it. for example when I overthink about a person He/She calls me at day!! :D

Life is very beautiful so its better to move on....

When its hard to forget friends, its also hard to forget hostiles! 

It is not easy to forget someone with whom you have had some great memories. you can try not to see him or her but you can't help thinking about them,whereas it will be easy for them to forget you, may be because they didn't take you as their friend or in some other relationship but it could not be only reason. If it seems to you that they have forgotten you it might not be true who knows why he/she has ignored you, you may still be in their hearts and memories. What ever the reason is stop being worried and move on into your life.   

Let her (or him) forget about you, if that's what she want. You can't do anything about it. As to your preference, keep the memories if it pleases you.

You can only get hold of your own emotions/thoughts but not others'. If she can't remember you, then be thankful that her character was revealed. Unfortunately, she doesn't value you, the way you value her. In actuality, it can be considered as a blessing in disguise. You've come to know her true colors.

Such is life. Move on. You're bound to meet others.

Keep what/who is worth keeping.

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Nice blog, errr...comments,  Beh

I couldn't agree more, Ohnie

You seems right ..everything has a limit but this trying to forget someone has no limit ...its better not to try to stop it but to think something else ..have to understand it however...thanks

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