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It is about the house of old people. In our society, we take our old mother or father there. We are able to support them but still, we take them there to spend the rest of their life. They did their best to raise us and to bring us to the society. When they become old we take them to those places. It is a curious way to repay them. Of course, exceptional cases are there.
Yes it is strang
Mashkoor ya Said! Wa agrab min kidah, adam ifaa addain. Thanks for your nice comment.
It is a deprivation on the part new generation of the blessing of Allah, where He commands to take care of them we leave them away in the old house. Allah makes us remind while commanding us to pray whenever see the old parent see them with a cordial smile and say "O Allah bless my parents as they bless me when I was infant."
No Dara, this is cruelty. We hired an attendant for my mother, but keep her with us till her death. Attendant was because all of my family was working people, and kids were school/college kids. The attendant took care in the day time, rest of the time we took care of her. In spite I think that I was failed to do my responsibilities in comparison of my mothers love and care she extended to me.
Lekin ke sei Mr. Mishaikh? They raised me and spent the night without proper sleeping, resting or even eating. They melted like a candle to pave the way for me. How can I do that? Of course, whatever you do, you will never be able to compensate the time when you were in her bowels. For nine months, she suffered different kinds of pain. After birth, look at what she had been going through. Thank you Mishaikh.
:( what can I say in this case. I don't want to be in their situation . In my opinion , it's hard to be lonely in an old age or being kicked away from ur own kids , that u have spent ur entire life to support them . There are some exceptional cases , where some elderly people have no place and no relative so they go there . In my city there is a prayer " Oh Allah breaks me like a dry branch of a tree " which means that they don't want to stay long in the line waiting for death . Kids shouldn't do such a thing to their parent
Waish alaamal ya Rosemary? Fi kateer min annas kidah. I hope you kids won't kick you away from home. It is true that some parents do not have children for this reason or that, in that case, they go to those houses for old age people. Thanks for your nice comment.
Rosemary, Athahir, anti bara biwalidaik. Mashaa Allah, nice supplication. I really like it. Thanks for those pictures of the parents. May God bless you.
Why a Nursing House ?....Can't you care about your parents ? Don't you have money ?...Why do you leave them to the Old-Age Houses ?.. Did your parents leave you to the baby-nursing houses ? ha .. ? The all family members are responsible from their parents..... Do not eat too much, Do not go abroad to travel and cut from your expences a bit, care of your parents.....I do not want to hear this words from your mouths again....
Ne znam, Pepe. blagodarya mnogo! It is a matter of paying back. Those guys, (mother, father) did their best to look after me. They used to clean my ugly excreted things without any complaint. I think that is called ingratitude. Thanks Pepe for your nice and meaningful comment.
I completely agree with Mishaikh , hire an attendant and do what ever you can for them when you have free time from your job and studies , they are the first priority , their place belongs with you , not the nursing homes.