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How to make people follow you or at least listen to what you say?

Dear EC friends and for other members that are willing to share,

Could you please help me guys, how can I make people follow me? I didn't ask for such role but I don't know they thought I'm trustworthy (believe it or not, I don't think so), but since they thought so, I would like to give them what they deserve. I would like to show them at least a quarter of their expectation from me.

Now, how to become a good leader, given the fact that I will make people who are older than me, more professional than me, and more experience than me to follow/listen to me?

How? @.@

Scary.

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 TO me , I think when want people foillow or listen to you , this needs more effort in power of mind ( knowledge / wisdom )  and this means you should have features  to make people do what what you want like some famous person in history that are called leaders ,fo course there are many examples for this reagrd .

     Dear Risty   , u have to do alot to make people follow u . It isn't an easy thing to do .

If  u are in a higher position.  U need lot of skills and reading  . U should know how to direct  them to achieve certain goals , and u need to make ur own style of management. 

                  For me being fair is the  first criteria  . Resilience  is the 2  . Our world is teemed with different people with many types of personalities  . We ought to be wise  enough  to deal with the fairly not equally  :) 

            I think  if u care for the whole group of people , proving it by ur a deeds  using ur  authorities in the right way they will follow u :)

Hello, Miss Paula! Now I know why you were chosen as a new moderator. I'm gonna absorb your advice and they are all positive so no disagreement here.

I would love to know how's your experience working with the public? I wish to read that someday...

Thanks a lot!

★ღ ˚ Paula✰ •* ˚ said:

Risty there has to be a reason you were chosen.  Someone saw in you abilities that will be good for this group.  Do not over think it.  If you do.....you will cause trouble for yourself.  Be fair, be kind, be serious, be diplomatic, be hard working.  Know that all are not going to agree with you.  ...

Hello, Addel! I will keep that in mind too. :) Thanks!

Addel said:

Hi Risty,

By keep sharing the knowledge & little things and keep growing..
Wish you good luck
~Adel

Hello again, Mr. David! You are an effective motivator and a positive influence to people, no sugar coating. Thanks a lot for your time to answer my queries and to be honest, I find them helpful and hopeful that somehow I can do these things for them.

About unworthy, well...how to explain that? I have a different definition of that maybe (I've told you that;) )..

Thanks a lot, and I wish you more power and strength!



David said:

Hi again Risty,

It's great to read your reply.

Somehow you have received and mistakenly believed a harmful and dangerous message: "most of them are unworthy individuals like me". Or, possibly I've misinterpreted your 

Hello, SaLeM! I think I better read some famous speaker...:D Thanks!

SaLeM said:

 TO me , I think when want people foillow or listen to you , this needs more effort in power of mind ( knowledge / wisdom )  and this means you should have features  to make people do what what you want like some famous person in history that are called leaders ,fo course there are many examples for this reagrd .

Hello, Rosemary! You are right. This is not easy. I will try my best to be fair so help me God. Thanks for your support!

Rosemary said:

     Dear Risty   , u have to do alot to make people follow u . It isn't an easy thing to do .

If  u are in a higher position.  U need lot of skills and reading  . U should know how to direct  them to achieve certain goals , and u need to make ur own style of management. 

                  For me being fair is the  first criteria  . Resilience  is the 2  . Our world is teemed with different people with many types of personalities  . We ought to be wise  enough  to deal with the fairly not equally  :) 

            I think  if u care for the whole group of people , proving it by ur a deeds  using ur  authorities in the right way they will follow u :)

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