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Is having kids the base  of  establishing any family  . I mean when a male and a female meet  together . Is having  kids and bring them up their first priority  ??!!

What if they aren't able to have them ? Dose it mean the end of their relationship 

Some couples have kids .However  , they fight all the time and don't feel happy  to have them . In my opinion  , bringing  a child in this world is a big responsibility. 

      Let me what do think dear English Club members  ?:)

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Hi Mercer  u always  enrich discussion   . Yes there are people who treat children  like commodities   , and get certain  treatment  according  to their qualities :( there  have been always a black swan story everywhere  :(

Reginald Mercer said:

@ Risty

It's not a matter of opinion, it's a matter of morality.  You can become a wife to a man and you may be blessed with children together, but you don't have a right as a person to a child.  This kind of thinking results in those surrogacy horror stories we here over here, where people have some surrogate in Thailand carry a child and then demand an abortion if the baby is shown to have some defect.  It turns children into commodities that can be bought and sold like cars or computers.

I would say... Having kids is another stadium of our life. Kids fullfil our emptiness, change us and the way we percieve the things.Not everybody wants to have kids but I find it natural process of our maturity - to settle down, start family and to move to another level... unfortunately some people have kids and don't realize, how happy they are (they drink, take drugs, dont care abt kids) unlike those who are desperately trying to have them, would be nice parents just mother nature is against :( this is damn unfair...

having kids is a great gift from God, before marriage, i thought having kids will brought me an extra load, i have to divide my concentration, not only for my career but also for that kids, but that opinion slowly change as grow up and my mindset.

Now, i feel very enjoy with my family, many things can we do, especially with my son, i can teach him many things, i can spent my weekend with his game, it make me feel more younger, bring my memory back to my childhood, i can feel how our parents feeling when i was a child.

     Happy to know  u are happy Tantan  :) God  bliss ur family 

Tantan said:

having kids is a great gift from God, before marriage, i thought having kids will brought me an extra load, i have to divide my concentration, not only for my career but also for that kids, but that opinion slowly change as grow up and my mindset.

Now, i feel very enjoy with my family, many things can we do, especially with my son, i can teach him many things, i can spent my weekend with his game, it make me feel more younger, bring my memory back to my childhood, i can feel how our parents feeling when i was a child.

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