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What if they aren't able to have them ? Dose it mean the end of their relationship
Some couples have kids .However , they fight all the time and don't feel happy to have them . In my opinion , bringing a child in this world is a big responsibility.
Let me what do think dear English Club members ?:)
Children are the core of your marriage, typically. Some couples are infertile due to some kind of tragedy, but they can always adopt. When you throw out children, you lose the demographic core of your country.
We're having this happen right now across the West and as a result, Muslims in Western countries may eventually become the majority populations. Demography is destiny!
Also I could not see the point of marriage if I didn't have children with it. I'd just stay single
First at all, I like the four kids photo in your discussion above :D
and then, yes.. let's say.. it's not necessary in a way that without having it, everything will be destroyed... No, of course not in this way... Because many times, one of the couple is infertile or something that they would not be able to produce a baby.. Relationship, under this term, can still continue and be secured if they decide to cope with it... But on the other hand, It's true that any relationship will come to lifelessness and it will be very desperate and hard without having kids within it.. I strongly believe that having a kid is the key for any happy couple, because it brings them a new life which renew their love and help them into continuation..
the meaning of life, the presentation of innocence, when you are tired, they are relaxing, one of the source of happinesses, pureness, saving marriage and so on, we can increase examples.If one marry and do not demand a kid in this life, he cant say that he lives.(If god does not give ,i can understand, but someone who is married and does not want kid, it should not be normal in my view). My late dad always said me: You cant undertsand me without being dad, i thought he was exaggerating, after my marriage when i have my kid, i really understood him.So it is an experience, any single cant understand, they should have one.
Okay :) I didn't expect that all the men responses on the discussion , will be with having kids coz usually it's moms jobs. Mercer said he'd rather stay single if not having kids , Camel recall his father words about understanding what dose it mean to be a dad and AG point that it is a key to happiness . Thanks guys u added alot with ur passionate words to my view about this topic . Jess respond saying she will be happy to see a kid playing around :) Maybe we are real human when we are kids
To have children is natural. I am seeing here in the USA the trend to have pets mostly by those families who do not have kids. Without kids, a family is considered incomplete. In Eastern societies, the relationship becomes stronger between the couples when there are kids, and the bond persists. In such cases divorce is rare. Besides I have also seen here that people adopt kids if they are unable to have their own. There are also colors in the painting of the universe with kids. And without them, I do not think life seems incomplete.
I'm totally agreed with my friend AG.Thanks a lot and appreciate your equitable answer.
However, I used to think every kid are mine.Even my kids my every pleasure and my every treasure.
Not necessary, even a husband isn't necessary either. :)
But I love to have kids to care, to love, to be with me...even though the kid didn't come from me. :)