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Today, I was chatting with my friend after many days. She said that she starts loving a friend with whom she has been chatting for one year. Being a good observer I could observe that she really likes him.
I asked her a question, “how does he look like?”
She answered, “No, I have not seen him yet”
I laughed at her answer and said, “hahaha! You love that person whom you have not seen yet”
She replied me this, “very funny ……….he is a nice person. I like his way of talking, words which he uses while chatting with me, he respects me…………….. and do you mean that one falls in love only after seeing his/her face??”
She had the point…… this compels me to ask this question to you, friends … what do you think about it?
I really don't think looks matter a lot. Relationships and marriages are about 10% looks and 100% compatibility, love, commitment and loyalty. What matter is how they feel about you and how comfortable you are with them Later in relationship looks, age, hight, weight doesn't matter at all What matter is your bonding with that person which will be very rare if you get to find one Mutual feelings are very rare, you are just lucky if you find one Looks will fade away with time but what is going to strengthen with time is your bonding, the connection you two share.
If u are a person of a strong character and if u are honest to your better half then looks are the least bothered thing.For a relationship to work out one must keep transparency in his relationship and care for each other looks never matter if love is true...
It does play a role... For me, I can say it plays 25% of the total evaluation or acceptance of a person.. But I can say that it's a necessary condition but not enough condition for me.. I mean that in case it scores low, I might not be interested in other evaluations... While if it scores well (or let's say "fair"), then I can go on through other evaluations of the personality..
I would say mechanism of falling in love differs between men and ladies , from my observation , in most cases prettiness of a lady plays a big role in attraction and love for a man to fall in love ,and sure men also do love a lady for her personality and femininity ,and for women i guess in most cases they attracted to the personality and other things like kindness of the man and his gentility, and ofc the handsomeness of a man plays a role for a lady to love someone, but not that much isolated from these moral things.
I don't think it is so, otherwise the phrase LOVE IS BLIND would not have come in use.
No, Roman this is not the fact which you are assuming here. This is a universal phrase and also used my Eastern Culture, MUHABBAT ANDHI HOTI HAI. It means that love does not see beauty and/or ugliness, cast and creed, religion, etc. The one Cupid chooses to target has to become a victim. Do you know about ISHQ-E-LAILA (Love of Laila and Majnoon). Laila means DARK NIGHT. It is said laila was not beautiful.
I hope this explanation satisfies you.