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My topic of discussion is,

A female who is educated and having a good job like in MNCs does not prefer to marry a jobless guy, even if he is very nice and good person.

Why does it happen?

In the case of boys, they do it.

Last week, one of my friends asked this question and I was almost blank.. :D

I did not answer on his good question.

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    A jobless guy is a couch potato, nice women don't like potato as they should keep their shape, they like tomato. Nice guy like jobless women, for everyday after work they will know how to get home.

ROFLMAO! And you chose Homer Simpson as your avatar? Priceless.

Sleepy Head said:

    A jobless guy is a couch potato, nice women don't like potato as they should keep their shape, they like tomato. Nice guy like jobless women, for everyday after work they will know how to get home.

  Rahul  , if u are well educated  , cultured  and have a good  salary . Would u marry a woman  of less qualities  than urs ????  Let us say  not that smart  , or beautiful  or maybe poor  . Would u do such a thing  ?? No , u wont . In the case  of a woman  Why Not  ?!  It is not marriage  it is a long term  relationship  . Both of them will suffer  if their is not matching  no common things  and things might end dramatically  in divorce  or cheating  

No women will marry a jobless guy it doesn't matter how much he earns he should work. we need to have understanding between them there is no limit of human desire but we can work on it to fulfill real love never dies...

Rahullll,

A Very nice topic you have come up with for the discussion. Like Men wish to marry a girl who is intelligent, beautiful and educated. So likewise girls also expect their would be better half should be working and earning.

At sometimes in life there comes a point when a woman cannot give her best or cannot handle the job as well as household work in such cases she would definitely expect her husband to take her responsibility completely and earn bread for her and children and I think this is obviously natural.

If he is a nice and good person, he can't be jobless... Having job only doesn't mean making money, but evidence that he has a clear vision of future and plan. It also shows his attitude of his long life and more and more. Plus, Love is dream, Life is real. Yes, Life is real and thing that spends lots of money to run family consistently. Even if I can't say this is prevalent in all the countries, and although woman's job is quit stable, most of women's work can be temporary with the reason like maternity leaves

The question we have to consider is: is the man jobless because of missing effort to find a job and he doesn't care about his joblessness. Maybe is he jobless because of circumstances which  are not in his responsibility and guilt? Doesn't he want to work...  or ....  does he want .... but despite great effort he doesn't find a job. And the second what we have to to bear in mind is: a man can become unemployed also during a marriage through many different reasons. Because of bankrupt of the employers, own illness or physical limitations due to accident ... just to enumerate a few of those reasons.
Does it mean his wife should leave him? What is with: in good and bad times and love?
And why only to speak about jobless men? Why we don't speak also about jobless women? I know the rule of women isn't the same in every society. But women should have also their own responsibility to care for the family in hopeless times... even if it isn't usual. Men should not be only the breadwinner and worker .... as so as women should not be only the recipients ... a marriage is a love relationship AND a partnership ... at least it should be so. 

Very well commented Rose. I totally agree with your viewpoint.

Rose said:

The question we have to consider is: is the man jobless because of missing effort to find a job and he doesn't care about his joblessness. Maybe is he jobless because of circumstances which  are not in his responsibility and guilt? Doesn't he want to work...  or ....  does he want .... but despite great effort he doesn't find a job. And the second what we have to to bear in mind is: a man can become unemployed also during a marriage through many different reasons. Because of bankrupt of the employers, own illness or physical limitations due to accident ... just to enumerate a few of those reasons.
Does it mean his wife should leave him? What is with: in good and bad times and love?
And why only to speak about jobless men? Why we don't speak also about jobless women? I know the rule of women isn't the same in every society. But women should have also their own responsibility to care for the family in hopeless times... even if it isn't usual. Men should not be only the breadwinner and worker .... as so as women should not be only the recipients ... a marriage is a love relationship AND a partnership ... at least it should be so. 

Very well defined SNR. Good.

SNƦ said:

Rahullll,

A Very nice topic you have come up with for the discussion. Like Men wish to marry a girl who is intelligent, beautiful and educated. So likewise girls also expect their would be better half should be working and earning.

At sometimes in life there comes a point when a woman cannot give her best or cannot handle the job as well as household work in such cases she would definitely expect her husband to take her responsibility completely and earn bread for her and children and I think this is obviously natural.

well.. if he is jobless it isn't huge problem.. he always can fine job in own house like :cooking, ironing, cleaning.. and waiting his wife nice dressed, with smile when she comes tired from work :)

Thank you Mishaikh for your appreciation. ^_^
Mishaikh said:

Very well defined SNR. Good.

SNƦ said:

Rahullll,

A Very nice topic you have come up with for the discussion. Like Men wish to marry a girl who is intelligent, beautiful and educated. So likewise girls also expect their would be better half should be working and earning.

At sometimes in life there comes a point when a woman cannot give her best or cannot handle the job as well as household work in such cases she would definitely expect her husband to take her responsibility completely and earn bread for her and children and I think this is obviously natural.

So sweet.... :) :) might be this will make relation stronger and happier. 

However, I would like to say household work is tougher than the corporate world's job. :D :D


ella said:

well.. if he is jobless it isn't huge problem.. he always can fine job in own house like :cooking, ironing, cleaning.. and waiting his wife nice dressed, with smile when she comes tired from work :)

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