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How are you EC world ?
I got a question and I am hoping to get a positive response from all of you.
Here is my question...!
HOW GOOD YOU ARE AT HOLDING GRUDGES IN YOUR HEART FOR SOMEONE?
ARE YOU A FORGIVING PERSON OR YOUR EGO IS MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU?
everyone is welcome to share their thoughts...!
Let me tell you about me.
I don't hold grudges even though i knew someone is really bad with me .. ! I just end up forgiving .My ego is not greater than my forgiveness :)
forgive somebody is very good for me , it makes me very comfortable and it pacify my wrath so keeping grudge in your heart definitely hurt us more than other party. But I believe this fact that say :Trust is like a paper if you crumple it you cant make it like the firs time .
About ego I should say that it differ between person to person . ego is very important but i wish i was very carefree .
its a really good expression . tanks .we should keep many secrets in our heart .
Mind blowing :)) you are pretty right I must agree with you.
Forgiving others bring peace of mind and heart while keeping grudges bring stress.
Holding grudge will make me unhealthy and get stressed. What to do and make ourselves better is more important. ^_^
Wow, great discussion!
Well , holding a gurdge will affect ur mental health and distrub ur sleeping time .
It is a heavy burden that might drives u toward bad things . It will harm u more than ur enemy or rival .And it will prevent u from enjoying ur life . It is the result bad guys want u to keep . U must be strong enough to let go and practice forgiveness . However , when it comes to my self I can't claim that I can do it all the time but I am doing my best :)